Vying for Parents' Time:
Pets Remain a Top Priority
as the Family Grows (continued)

"I suggest making a concerted effort to continue the bonding time, the quiet time, and the play time that existed," Dewey said. "Because pets, particularly cats, are creatures of habit, I feel it's best not to change their habits."

"If you have a routine in place, you'll have a happier pet and a happier family," he added.

Dewey also recommended following the old adage –"if it's not broken, don't fix it."

"Repeat what was successful the first time around," Dewey said.

Finally, Dewey said parents must remain in tune with their pet's needs. Just like they know when their pet isn't feeling well, they should watch for clues that maybe the pet isn't adjusting as well to the changing household.

"When in doubt, consult your veterinarian, pediatrician, or pet behaviorist for reassurance," Dewey advised.

And as long as you make a concerted effort to remember "who moved in with whom," your pet will continue to love you unconditionally!

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